Three models

Sarah and her collaborator Caitlin Connolly, posing for their upcoming joint exhibit, the details of which appear on the second image, below.

Next we find that wee Claire was elected royalty for Springville High's Homecoming weekend!

And finally Spencer, over in Jerash, Jordan with some mates from the Jerusalem Centre.

Your guess is as good as ours on this one ...

The end of an era

Homecoming weekend, here in Springville, down in the US. The nice booster kids at the high school made this sign for Claire, and for all the other public or performing Red Devils.

On Thursday we made our way over to the soccer field for what we were realizing was our last home game ever. We also realized that Claire is the last of our four lady red devils (soccering, or swimming), that this is the end of a kind of amazing 16 year journey! 17, really, since Sarah got to come back and coach last year.

The can't-quite-see-it of Claire's number and surname on the grass on the hillside alongside the soccer field is analogous to the sunrise/ sunset glancingness, the quiet, inexpressible preciousness of this whole process. Families!

Warming up. This old tapering off in the north-west corner field has been the scene of many involving, dramatic, delightful family events over the years!

Claire, captaining ...

Well, we won this game against Wasatch High (Heber), 5-0. Claire, who continues to play left back, got an assist, an ankle twist that took her out for a stretch, and two fouls called against her. Pretty good, though not as good as that very vivid yellow card that she earned at the end of that last annoying Mapleton game!

Teenagers ...

This next thing is very classy. The High School brought a photographer in to take pictures of the eight kids that are graduating, and then a couple of parents blew the best one up and made these posters. Captain Claire's is extremely cool, we must say. Does this image sort of sum this whole long, winding down, wonderful career? Precise technique, sharp strategy and real, remarkable, beautiful power.

Boom!

Leafy

Drew's living room

Jordan, Spencer

Floral update

Mum's wedding-latest. Her friend Merrilee Manwaring helped her hang that massive spray in the second photograph, below. A middle-aged member of the bride's party approached in a friendly fashion. She liked the flowers. Nodding toward Mum she asked a question of Merrilee, who is in her mid-50s. “Is that your mother?”

Two teenagers

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32/40!

Blessed event

Agnes, par Drew D.

Collaboration

Sarah paints, Matt writes. Modest, but also important, and very gratifying. Love at home!

M.

I’m 20 years old. I personally identify as bisexual, with a male preference, but I came out as gay because it’s easier to explain to people.

I first noticed in 7th grade, but at the time I still liked one of my best friends more than anyone, so I was very distracted by those thoughts until about 9th grade. So orientation was never at the forefront of my mind until I started catching myself looking at other boys and thinking that I might like them. The biggest impact on me realizing I really like boys was a girlfriend I had in ninth grade, and after we’d had our first kiss I kinda didn’t really like it. It could’ve just been because I actually didn’t like her very much, but I took it then as a confirmation of my sexuality.

I never really had troubles accepting myself, which may be why, to be honest, I have an aversion to the phrase “struggling with same gender attraction.” My thought process was just, “well, if this is how it’s going to be, then this is how it’s going to be.” I didn’t really see a point in stressing over something that was going to be there no matter what, so I just rolled with it.

That being said, other people being accepting towards me when I came out to them didn’t hurt either. It’s nice to know that the people you’ve trusted about this sensitive and important thing are accepting. On the other end of the spectrum, I’ve been blessed with very little grief. My grandpa doesn’t believe that I’m actually gay, but he’s kept it to himself… so I don’t particularly worry about that.

I often wish I’d come out as bisexual instead of gay, because that feels more true to me when I say it out loud, but it’s not too big of a deal. Being “out” is something I try not to let affect my day to day life, or what I do. Sure, it’s a good time to be flamboyant and act “gay”, but that’s not who I really am, so I don’t try to let that be my defining character trait.

Being accepted means being treated like a person. People saying “it’s okay if you’re gay!” and then being awkward whenever you’re around isn’t being accepting. It’s just annoying. Being accepted is also in the little things people do. I’ve had people who would usually hug me as a greeting shake my hand instead after I officially came out. All I want is to be treated exactly how I was treated before people knew I was gay.

In today’s society, even though it’s a lot more accepting than it used to be, I do sometimes feel marginalized. A lot of people try to put members of the LGBTQ community down for just existing, and even though that notion is not directed at me specifically, it still makes me feel upset. People sometimes discount us just for being a little different from them. I feel marginalized in my workplace, sometimes, by one coworker specifically. He isn’t aware of my sexuality, which seems to enable him to rant about how he hates gay people and how they’re attacking the sanctity of marriage and all that. I tend to be able to laugh it off, but it’s a sad reminder of how many people actually believe that.

I do what I do to help myself progress. By making myself a better person, I can not only improve my own life, but I can learn how to better help others in this life. This includes the teaching I do in my martial arts system, making money, and learning to work.

When I ask myself why I’m doing things, it’s ultimately to make me happy. That sounds selfish, but if you aren’t happy in this world, then you aren’t being your best self. But, being happy doesn’t just mean you’re focusing solely on yourself. You can find happiness through helping others find happiness as well.

From (https://www.sarahwinegar.com/)